What motivates me?

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I am mostly motivated by the blessing of waking up every single morning because not everyone gets the chance to wake up every single day. It also motivates me because I never know when the Lord would want me by his side.

Having a loving and supporting family also motivates me to achieve my goals and to be who I want to be. Not everyone has family that will support them in what they desire in life. My family is my motivator because they let me choose what I want in life and let me learn from my mistakes so that I can grow and see things in a different light than before.

Write a list: the 10 most unexpected consequences of being online.

The 10 most unexpected consequences of being online.

1.       Meeting people from the past that you would rather forget.

2.       Constantly checking up on your ex’s profile.

3.       Learning about things you didn’t even know existed.

4.       It’s easier for other people to find out more about you-be careful of what you say and post because it can turn out to be negative or positive.

5.       Getting weird phone calls from strangers (stalkers).

6.       You lose your private life.

7.       Always being available to chat, especially if you have a Smartphone.

8.       Misunderstandings between conversations because there’s no face to face interaction.

9.       Accidently sending a wrong message to the wrong recipient.

10.   Addictive

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The elephant in the room

When I first saw this topic, I didn’t know the meaning of it and I thought it meant that the elephant was literally in the middle of the room, not knowing that it was an idiom for an obvious truth that is being ignored or goes unaddressed.

The elephant in the room in my family mainly happens when a family gets heavily drunk, we all know that when some members of the family get drunk they cause a scene and starting behaving in a drunken manner, but we all choose to ignore their behaviours and feel powerless because in most cases drunk people never listen to anyone.

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how to make relationships work

some points to make the relationship work and to last longer:

• Don't try too hard to convince the other person of your love. Love and trust yourself more. This will relax your love defenses and enable you to give yourself totally to the relationship.
• Don't question the other person's love all the time.
• Don't use your relationships to fulfill your expectations.
• know yourself. Analyze the cause of your reactions.
• Acknowledge the other person as an individual. Grow and let grow.
• In a conflicting relationship, check where you went wrong rather than where the other person failed.
• listen to each other. Communication strengthens the foundation of a relationship.
• take the first step in working out a relationship without worrying about who is in the right. Don't depend on any person and don't let the other person depend on you.

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Every day is a good day.

Every day is a good day regardless of the negativity it might come with. The hardships that we go through are actually lessons, that we should always see each day as a good day. Make everyday a good day and you will surely have a brighter life.

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